Plan your dinners before you shop

My family used to be shocking at deciding what to eat for dinner. When someone suggested a meal there was always an objection. I realised that I needed to change tack, so I reached for my favourite cookbook and some sticky notes, handed them to Kiki, Anela and Marina and asked them to pick two dinners each. I made a list of all the ingredients, along with any modifications, such as removing walnuts for Anela’s nut allergy. When I went to the supermarket I only bought the ingredients on the list instead of randomly buying produce to the fridge. The results? Bang! Dinner for the week was sorted.

Batch cooking rules

Being a parent is taxing and you don’t want to spend every evening in the kitchen, so cook a double batch of a meal that you know the whole family loves and that keeps well (I’m not talking fresh salads here!). You can have it again later in a few days’ time or freeze half for next week.

Love your freezer

Most cooked foods can be frozen for at least a month, and I love taking out a frozen curry before I leave for work in the morning, knowing that all I need to do is zap it in the microwave when I get home. Lots of the pies and pastries in my book, such as the Cheat’s Ricotta and Feta Burek and Veggie-loaded Sausage Rolls freeze well, as does my Chill-out Con Carne.

I also love making big batches of my favourite sauces, such as Satay Sauce and Teriyaki Sauce, and then freezing them in portions for a later date.

Shortcuts are okay!

You don’t always have to create meals from scratch. Check out Pimp Up Your Roast Chicken in my book to see how easy it is to make ten incredible meals with a supermarket roast chook. Making your own marinades can be fun and if you’ve got the time, go for it, but don’t be afraid to buy store-bought marinades and sauces. Shortcuts can actually be a cool way to discover new flavours.

Prep ahead

Make life easier by prepping your veg when you get home from the shops. I give all my produce a wash and store it in plastic containers in the fridge so that it’s ready to use throughout the week. You can also make many of the dressings and sauces in my book a few days ahead and store them in sealed jars in the fridge until you’re ready to use them.

Order online

I have to admit that I am a supermarket addict (I often go three times a week), but if you’re short on time, why not shop online? Ordering online saves time, especially if you get it delivered, which means your weekends will be free to hang with family and friends.

Look for bargains

I love it when the supermarket catalogue drops in my letterbox. The most expensive items on my shopping list are meat, chicken and fish, so when I see premium beef mince on sale, I’ll buy loads, divide it into portions and freeze. Just remember to take it out the night before to defrost!

Family means everything to me, and some of my best childhood memories are of my mum, dad, sister and me sitting around the dinner table. We’d discuss how many times I had gotten in trouble at school that day or my dad would tell us something funny that had happened to him at work… it was super awesome.

Back in the day, my mum was a factory worker, so she’d be home by 3.30 pm and would usually spend an hour or two preparing dinner. We had the best times during those magic hours and, when we were lucky enough, my mum would even whip up a dessert or cake. This time together gave me an appreciation for food and for the family stories behind the meals that my mum would cook. There were a lot of ‘when I was your age’ discussions and it was also a great time to drop birthday present hints, some times more successfully than others (I still haven’t forgotten the year I asked for Adidas runners and instead got cheap knock-offs).

Fast forward to the next generation. My wife Marina and I both work full-time, and we have often struggled to find the time to recreate that special bonding time of our childhood dinners. Our time at home during the week is scarce, with after-school activities for Anela and Kiki taking up most nights. I wanted to work out a way to ease the dinnertime pressure, to make this time as relaxed and golden as it was during my childhood.

There’s no chance I can cook the dinners that my mum used to make back in the day,

I just don’t have that amount of time. So I’ve worked out shortcuts and other ways to take inspiration from my mum’s cooking and the special memories I have of dinnertime, to make it work in the context of our busy, modern lives.

I’ve designed the recipes in my book to take the stress out of your evenings and help you get a fresh, healthy and delicious dinner on the table – one that your family will actually want to eat! Most can be whipped up in 30 minutes and some are even quicker (look for the ‘Ridiculously fast!’ symbol throughout
the book).

You can also customise any of the recipes to suit your family’s preferences. For example, I’ve used microwave rice throughout the book, but if you have a little more time, you can cook your rice from scratch. The pies and pastries all use puff or filo pastry from the freezer and come together in no time, and there are loads of ideas for including veggies in your dinner in a way that kids will love. I’ve also devoted a whole chapter to creating an impressive meal using a supermarket roast chook and just a few extra ingredients (the Portuguese Grilled Chicken on page 113 is a personal favourite).

And because I couldn’t write a book without including some awesome lunchbox inspiration for both you and your kids, I’ve included a month of lunches to give you some new ideas for how to use your leftovers from dinner the next day.